Hands-on, intensive parenting is best, most parents say

  • By Loretta Boronat
  • 24 Jan, 2019

Most parents say that a hands-on time-intensive strategy to parenting is the best option. This was the most common answer in a study that interviewed parents across socioeconomic backgrounds. This implies that parents feel significant pressure to spend the time and money on their children regardless of it is feasible for them to do so. The study was done by interviewing people on specific hypothetical scenarios. Each scenario had a more intensive parenting option and a more natural parenting option for the people to judge.

Key Takeaways:

  • Current cultural stimuli is making parents feel a giant-sized amount of pressure to pour oodles of both time and money into taking care of their children and guilt if they don't.
  • These modern social mores were discussed by Patrick Ishizuka, in his book, "Social Class, Gender and Contemporary Parenting Standards in the United States."
  • The book culls, collates and analyzes data from 3600 parental study participants to make understanding of the phenomenon.

"The findings suggest intensive parenting has become the dominant model for how parents across the socio-economic spectrum feel children should be raised – regardless of whether the parent has the resources to actually do so."

Read more: http://news.cornell.edu/stories/2019/01/hands-intensive-parenting-best-most-parents-say

Original Photo Credit

By Loretta Boronat July 2, 2019
"We’re sure people were more civil, despite all the assassinations, riots and cities literally burning. And in this mythic past, parenting was much easier than it is today." Read more here: https://www.mysiblingdolls.com/millennial-parents-are-raising-their-kids-fine
By lorettarosellc@aol.com June 24, 2019
"Well, at its core, positive parenting involves creating a strong bond with your child through communication and mutual respect." Read more here: https://www.mysiblingdolls.com/how-to-implement-positive-parenting-solutions-for-the-modern-parent
May 31, 2019
"So when the conversation on a recent evening out with my sister and a few of her friends turned to the raising of young children, I found myself just listening." Read more here: https://www.mysiblingdolls.com/parenting-older-kids-a-tested-nuanced-relationship
May 9, 2019
"Some might call these promises tough love; I see them as a foundation for making you honest and thoughtful men." Read more here: https://www.mysiblingdolls.com/6-promises-to-my-sons-from-a-tough-love-dad
April 30, 2019
"My daughter is adopted, a little Alaska Native child with Inuit blood coursing through her veins. It was perhaps because of that background that a recent NPR piece titled “How Inuit Parents Teach Kids to Control Their Anger” first jumped out at me." Read more here: https://www.mysiblingdolls.com/why-parenting-without-yelling-is-better-for-kids-and-you
April 25, 2019
"So, in light of being a fundamentally flawed parent, relying on the grace of God to do anything good in mine or my kids’ lives, I want to offer 3 steps to perfect parenting." Read full post here: https://www.mysiblingdolls.com/3-steps-to-perfect-parenting
April 18, 2019
"There are numerous studies showing that low-income children who begin kindergarten at the same academic level as children from wealthier families are more likely to graduate on time, go to college and start a career." Read more here: https://www.mysiblingdolls.com/parenting-matters-investing-in-our-young-children
March 29, 2019
"Lilly has to do this because she believes her generation’s future is at risk." Read full post here: https://www.mysiblingdolls.com/this-10-year-old-is-saving-the-world-by-ditching-school
By Rick Stubblebine March 25, 2019
"A significant share of parents, across income levels, say they’re involved in their adult children’s daily lives." Read full post here: https://www.mysiblingdolls.com/young-adulthood-in-america-children-are-grown-but-parenting-doesnt-stop
By lorettarosellc@aol.com March 19, 2019
"But aside from improving your children’s vocabulary, research shows that being an early reader helps kids develop comprehension skills, makes them more receptive to creativity, and better able to navigate change." Read more here: https://www.mysiblingdolls.com/here-are-parenting-tips-to-learn-how-to-raise-a-reader
Show More